锟截革拷锟斤拷安静的坐着。抽根烟,然后一直发呆。 Mrs她? 16:13:17你总是想尽了办法和能力让我开心,最开始我回来赤峰的时候就知道自己是个累赘,你给我找轻快的不累的工作让我去阳光保险不图我挣多少有个事干就行干什么都养着我,我嫌墨迹嫌天天被客户骂我是骗子心烦,你也顺着我,我说我喜欢做片子,进不了电视台就干后期,你又给我找后期,找赤峰响当当的个人工作室,结果我又这么不争气跟同事不会相处,还老受气。这半年在这也没挣多少自己都不够花,有时候挺自责的,压力也很大,我跟你说这些我也不知道你能不能理解,就是我也觉得自己挺亏欠你的,我现在是很不顺心很不开心,我觉得我不该活成这样至少我真心实意的去对别人没糟践过谁,结果换回来的都是不尊重和认为我是好撒谎的人。我自己再好好想想吧,该怎么办,我觉得每次你都是希望我开心的,尽全力为我铺路,我也不能老是这样,就希望你别嫌我麻烦好好的别离开我。
16:27:36你刚进社会 和人相处产生摩擦是难免的 但你们公司那几个人也确实都不咋地 可能都还小 没定力 天天就在那么一个破工作室感觉有几年的资历就了不起了 我说过你多少次 和懂得感恩的人去用心和他交 也值得你去交 他们说你撒谎怎么的 你就是太没有定力了 还不是被别人看出来了 我要去一说去找你 你就做不住了是的肯定是 你就不能有点沉浮 再就是有时候你接电话的时候 你说他们听不见 你接电话的时候每个人都会竖着耳朵听着呢 我就提醒过你多少次 你就不听 你就太露怯了 不要把喜怒哀乐的太表现在脸上了 一说你就用心和他们交 有啥用啊 不值得你交的 有啥用 少说话 少跟他们交心 你开始就把自己放的太低廉了
Mrs她? 16:31:45嗯我就这么个人啊,没有个性也不傲 那你来我就是坐不住啊,忍不住开心
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小彭友友友友儿 2016-03-08 18:18 锟截革拷锟斤拷安静的坐着。抽根烟,然后一直发呆。 保留一下今天的聊天记录吧,因为对于我来说真的是真心话也是最难的时候了
16:33:02人挪活树挪死 干的不开心就不干
Mrs她? 14:07:11我也想了,可是不干现在在重新找工作多难阿
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小彭友友友友儿 2016-03-08 18:14 锟截革拷锟斤拷安静的坐着。抽根烟,然后一直发呆。 Mrs她? 16:03:08我就是觉得干什么都没有特别顺自己心意的,都得我慢慢适应社会,能找个我喜欢又有很好的同事和工作环境的太难了,我每次一这样闹就总觉得自己是在给你添乱
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小彭友友友友儿 2016-03-08 18:16 锟截革拷锟斤拷The women in Harry Potter 自己打的!I am a female writer and what's interesting about the wizarding world is when you take physical strengths out of the equation, a woman can fight just as the same a man can fight, a woman can do magic just as powerfully as a man can do magic and I considered I've written a lot of well-rounded female characters in these books.
A lot of preoccupations and expectations are different on man and woman.
Through out the series, he is so much a boy in search of a father. And yet, at these times of real stress, it's his mother that's a place of refuge. I just suppose that, as a woman and as a daughter, maybe I feel that that's the form of love that doesn't get explored as much as it should do, given it, well, it's so formative in everyone' life,for good or for ill.
Funnily enough, I founded a charity called Lumos, which is about institutionalized children largely in Eastern Europe. And some of the many disturbing things I found out from being evolved closely with the charity is how much measurable brain damage is done when a child is taken from its mother and placed in a institution. And when I say"measurable", you can scan the brain and you will see that some pathways haven't been made and you can never get that back. So in fact, when I wrote about Harry been incredibly loved in his earliest days is measurably true. That will literally have given him protection that's no one can undo. His brain will have developed in a way that Voldemorts brain didn't. Because Voldemort was, from the moment of his birth, institutionalized. So I suppose, yeah, Lily was representative of safety in a way that a father couldn't be. Because he's constantly told: You look like your father. He's got to live up the expectations. But lily is something different, lily is the person who stood by the cot and tried to stop her baby dying. Mother love is hugely important in Harry Potter.
Emma: I just think it's so cool that joe has Mrs. Weakly, and really kind of like pays homage to this incredible mother figure, how key her role is in keeping that family together, to her taking care of Harry. And you know, the whole of Dumbeldore's Army really. She's the mother of that world, and I think that's very female.
What impresses Julie was you always had the sense, I felt, that this wasn't just this warm and cozy 1950 housewife potching around her kitchen. There was some real steel in there. You could say there would have to be steel in the woman who raised Fred and Jeorge. Otherwise, you would go stark, staring mad. However, it was totally plausible for me, when she stepped forward in the Great Hall, and thought, "right, you bitch, you are getting yours. " Bellatrix messed with the wrong woman. "Not my daughter, you bitch".
It comes from her womb, that feeling of defense, defending her child. She's already lost one. You know, lion, the female lion or tiger defending her babies. You know, so it's unstoppable, which is wonderful.
I really enjoy killing Bellatrix. And I really enjoyed having it be molly that did it. And of course, you also have two very different female energy there pitted against each other. You have Molly, who will mother the whole world if she can. And you have Bellatrix, whose idea of love is very perverse and twisted. And that was satisfying. And there was something else I want to do with that Bellatrix ended. And this was very important to me. Very early on in writing this series, I remember a female journalist saying to me you know Mrs. Weasley, She's just a mother. And I was absolutely incensed by that comment.
Now, I consider myself to be feminist. And I'd always wanted to show that just because a woman has made a choice, a free choice, to say, well, I am gonna raise my family, and that's gonna be my choice. I may go back to a career or I may have a career part-time, but that's my choice." Doesn't mean that that's all she can do. And as we proved that in that little battle, Molly Weasley comes out and proves herself the quality of any warrior on that battlefield. And I also loved that Professor McGonago got her moment to really show what she could do.
I don't like the marginalization of woman when the fighting breaks out. You know, we get to fight, too. I really wanted that. Actually, there was a earlier draft that. At one point, it was Harry who took on Snape in that confrontation, and I really didn't want that happen.
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